Write it down and make it happen
It can be a serious challenge ensuring that life looks the way you'd paint it if you could.
Do you know what your life would look like if you could wave a magic wand? If you didn't have to work for the money? Some of the big answers can be found with exercises like this.
I suggest getting a big piece of paper (you can make this as pretty as you want to - how about cutting out a heart shape?) and writing down all the things you want in your life. You can write full sentences in the present tense (far more tangible like this) or just words.
Keep this somewhere you can see it daily. When you decide what you want in life and you write your desires down, you plant the seeds for action.
You might like this book.